I have met many people who are insulted and angry if you suggest they need to change or do something different. They consider that you are self-righteous and looking down your nose at them.
But I have found them to be the quickest people to look their nose down on someone else “lesser” than them. People they think are not socially acceptable or less skilled.
I have found that truly humble people do not notice when they are not lifted up. They do not point out that you are making them look bad. They are too selfless to notice.