People emphasize the negative things. There is a lot to detest out there. Living in a free world means people are free to be mean and fulfill there own selfish desires.
When someone can take the negative and turn it around, that is amazing.
To appoint unto them that mourn in Zion, to give unto them beauty for ashes, the oil of joy for mourning, the garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness; that they might be called trees of righteousness, the planting of the LORD, that he might be glorified. Isaiah 61:3