personality plus


“The passive aggressive objectifies the object of their desire. You are to be used as a means to an end. Your only value is to feed his/her own emotional needs. You are not seen as a person with feelings and needs but as an extension of him/her. They care for you the way they care for a favorite chair. You are there for their comfort and pleasure and are of use as long as you fill their needs.”

I wish this personality were more easily seen before the relationship got too far down the road.  It is by nature, secretive and deceptive and self preserving.

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